If you’ll pardon the repetition, I need to talk about Laura Ingalls Wilder’s Little House books just a bit more. As I mentioned before, reading The Wilder Life last month has made me want to reread the entire Little House series. Wyatt and I are reading them together for the time being, but I have a feeling he’ll need to take a break somewhere in the DeSmet years, probably around The Long Winter or Little Town on the Prairie. As much as I’d like to believe that my six-year-old boy will be interested teenage girls buying calling cards, attending literaries and curling their bangs with a slate pencil, I have a feeling that might not hold his interest.

When I decided to read the series to Wyatt, my first stop was the library. Our local branch has multiple copies of all the books, but the first few obviously get a lot of action because we had to visit several times before I could get my hands on Little House in the Big Woods. I still haven’t seen a copy of Little House on the Prairie! I looked into buying a set, but then I realized that my parents probably still had my own books from my childhood. After a call to my dad, a package arrived yesterday holding the yellow cardboard box with nine faded Harper Trophy editions of my beloved Little House books.

As I pulled each book out, their covers brought back so many happy memories of the hours I spent in Laura’s world. I used to sit in a rocker and read them on our front porch in the summers (quaint, huh?) and I would stay up late reading them in my room too. My parents’ bedroom was downstairs and mine was upstairs, so once they fell asleep they had no idea that my light was on and that I was staying up until 2:00 am reading about life on the prairie. (At least I think they didn’t know. Mom? Dad?)

I also played Little House with my friend Nancy a lot. She lived a block away from a small creek (or maybe it was a stream? I’m not sure what the difference is.) and we would take turns pretending we were Laura, Mary or that delightful witch, Nellie Oleson as we jumped around in our very own Plum Creek. Sometimes we even wore our extremely fashionable prairie skirts while we played. Remember those? Mine was brown corduroy.

The Little House books aren’t without their problems, of course, and some of those issues are front and center in my mind as we delve into Little House on the Prairie. The Ingalls’ relationship with Native Americans and the way Laura writes about it is troubling. Pa built a homestead in “Indian territory” by his own admission, for pete’s sake! And Ma — everyone’s beloved Ma — is about as bigoted as a person can be. Even the language Wilder uses is uncomfortable. We’ve just finished chapter one and already Laura has decided that she wants her very own “brown Indian papoose.” Ugh.

But I believe that the best books make you think and expose you to things you didn’t know about before, so along with discussions about sacrifice, industriousness and johnny cake, Wyatt and I will be talking about racism, stereotypes and the crimes against Native Americans that were perpetrated by our county. Also on the menu: poverty, grasshopper clouds, malaria, near drowning, disability and a whole town’s near starvation. Admittedly heavy stuff, but with a little guidance I think he can handle it.

Do you have memories of the Little House books? Was there another book you read as a child that you’ve never forgotten?

1. StoryCorps — Have you heard StoryCorps? They play it on Morning Edition on Friday mornings. I found the podcast on iTunes a few weeks ago and I’ve been running through the episodes at an amazing rate. It just features people’s stories. The stories of their lives. Big stories, little stories, funny stories, touching stories. I laugh or, more frequently, tear up every time I listen to one. It’s like an oral scrapbook of the American experience. Except great and not as pretentious as that description sounds.
2. Maclaren Quest Stroller — I wrote a little about this stroller back when we first got it a few months ago. Now that I’ve been using it for awhile, I can tell you that it is the best stroller ever! It was pricey, but when you consider how many strollers we bought when Wyatt was a baby — three — I think that the cost of this one stroller is about the same as what we spent on all of those. I like that it is slim and light, that I can easily maneuver it one-handed and that it doesn’t look all cheesy. I wish I could load it up a bit more without it getting tippy, but I can live with that.
3. Camera Strap Cover at Design*Sponge — I made one of these for our camera the other day. Not only is is fashionable, but now I don’t have to put up with that weird rubbery side of the strap touching my neck.
4. Stone Loops of Jurassica — I’m totally addicted to this game. I play it on my iPhone while Augie nurses.
5. Cosmo Cricket Snorkel paper — I love the bright, summery colors of this paper. Perfect for photos of my cutie little California boys. Actually, I’m loving all the Cosmo Cricket papers right now. Must resist….
6. Red toenails — Every summer, I paint my toenails red. I finally got to it this week and it gives me so much pleasure to look down and see my toes painted.
7. Charlie and Lola — I’m suddenly totally enamored of this kids’ show. We’ve checked out some of the books from the library before and they’re great, but I think the show is even better! That’s not something I say very often, either. The voices are perfect and the cool collage-y animation is wonderful to watch. If you have kids, you should go get a DVD to watch, right now!
8. The Freakin Never Ending To Do List — You have one too, right? Right? Download this free printable and like me, you can laugh every time you pull it out.
9. Martha Stewart’s Cupcakes — I’ve made three of the cupcakes in here so far. The red velvet recipe was fantastic. The others I’ve made are the brown sugar poundcake with brown butter icing and the triple citrus. Those were good too, but not good enough for me to make either of them again. I think the next kind I’m going to try are the one bowl chocolate cupcakes. I’ve heard lots of good things about those.

And finally, this is going out to all the mothers out there. I hope your kids treat you right!

When I started up this blog, I had the the idea that I would review the books I read on a regular basis. I’ve fallen off the wagon a bit there with that intention but in the last few weeks a book has come along that I just have to gush about a bit.

I’d seen a few reviews of The Six O’Clock Scramble by Aviva Goldfarb on blogs and most of them were very positive. I’m constantly looking for ways to make cooking dinner easier and faster. When we aren’t planning very well or even when we just get too tired after a long day, we end up making spaghetti for dinner (again!) or going out to eat. It’s not healthy, it’s expensive and it really doesn’t take much less effort or energy.

When Zach asked me if there was anything I wanted to add to his Amazon order a few weeks ago I asked him to add this book on a whim. It’s organized in a bit of an unusual way — the book has four main sections based on the seasons and within each season there are weekly menus. Each menu has a shopping list online and you can download and print the weekly menus from the book’s website. It’s a great idea in theory (and one that seems to have been borrowed from Leanne Ely’s Saving Dinner), but in practice it leads to a book that feels a bit disorganized to me. The menus are only pulled out at the beginning of each section and once you get into the recipes there is no indication of which menu you are in aside from a small piece of text down in the footer of the page. It’s a minor annoyance and one I can easily get around by dog-earing recipes that I want to try or by just going to the index, but I think I would find it easier to use if there were chapters on chicken, fish, pasta, etc.

But those are minor quibbles and I’m gushing, remember? So let’s get to the good stuff. As I’ve been reading the book, I’ve been marking the recipes I want to try. I usually mark one of every 10 or 20 recipes when I read a cookbook, but I’ve been marking one recipe for every 6 that I read. It’s only that few because I started out marking every other page and I realized I needed to stop before the whole dang book was marked up.

I also like that Goldfarb goes out of her way to make the recipes truly child friendly. I have one “family” cookbook that features recipes for fried oysters, gravlax and duck burgers. Seriously. I don’t care how evolved your child’s palette is — they would never eat that stuff. Most of the adults I know wouldn’t eat all three of those things. Goldfarb’s recipes on the other hand are tasty and interesting enough for adults, but use child-friendly ingredients. She also provides ideas for how to modify the recipes for the pickiest eaters.

Last week I made our whole dinner menu (four recipes) from this book. I didn’t use the online shopping list feature because I wanted to try recipes from all over the book but I found it pretty easy to throw a list together before I went to the store. The meals were quick to prepare — true to the 30 minutes or less of hands-on time promised in the book — and Zach and I liked every meal enough to want to have it again. Here are the recipes I made:

Recipe: Ravioli Lasagna (p. 142)

Pros: This was a shortcut lasagna where you use refrigerated ravioli instead of lasagna noodles and sauce. The first, and I think the best of all the recipes I made, it was chock full of veggies (carrots and red bell pepper) and it came together really quickly. We added the optional turkey Italian sausage which Zach really liked. We’ll absolutely be making this again and I think it will become a regular recipe in our repetoire.

Cons: Wyatt wouldn’t try it. I’m confident that if he would have he would have loved it though.

Pros: Another big winner in the flavor department and Wyatt ate an entire chimichanga by himself.

Cons: Dang this recipe made a lot! We ate this for dinner two nights in a row and had enough left-over for 3 lunches. I guess that’s a pro in some ways but you can have too much of a good thing.

Pros: Good curried chicken recipe. It was fabulous with Trader Joe’s garlic naan.

Cons: The sauce that went with the chicken was a bit harsh for me with too much raw garlic. Zach liked it though. Wyatt wouldn’t eat this because he’s decided he doesn’t like chicken this week.

Pros:This was yummy and had tons of vegetables in it. It came together very quickly even with all the veggie chopping.

Cons: This was a bit too spicy for me and for Wyatt too. I think it was my fault though because I substituted chipotle chili powder for regular chili powder but I didn’t cut it back at all. It was still good though and I’ll be making it again without the chipotle modification I made.

I just finished a great book, Little Heathens: Hard Times and High Spirits on an Iowa Farm During the Great Depression by Mildred Armstrong Kalish. This was a good book to read while I was sick — part memoir, part cookbook, part instruction manual for life on a farm. The chapters are short but packed with interesting anecdotes and reading the book feels a lot like sitting and talking with a vivacious great aunt at a family reunion.

I’m not a farm girl, but I am an Iowan at my core and this book is a love letter to Iowa. Kalish’s descriptions of the fall of a summer evening and the feel of the air just before a thunderstorm made me ache for my home state. The Bay Area is lovely, but after seventeen years here, the weather still feels wrong to me. Nothing makes me homesick like the memory of dusk in July with that damp blanket of warm air and all the neighbor kids running around the yard playing tag. We may have been born 50 years apart, but I know where this woman is coming from.

Kalish is just a little younger than my Grandma Ruby was and that added another level enjoyment to this book for me. It helped me picture what my Grandma’s life was like when she was a girl and reminded me of some of the stories she told me. And I miss my Grandma, so that was a nice feeling.

This is my pile of books to read. I keep it next to my bed. There are a few others in the queue scattered around the house, but I’m too afraid to put them on the pile because I have a very real fear that it will fall down on me as it is.

The Sarah Vowell up front is the one I’m currently reading. Zach had pulled it out to read, but I accidentally started it before he had a chance. (He had another one he was thinking about, so it wasn’t too terrible of me.)  Other books in the list are a couple of Ayelet Waldman Mommytrack mysteries, a Jasper Fforde book about a woman who can go inside the stories in books, a probably depressing but hopefully good Joan Didion book, a book about discipline and some other random stuff.

I first read this in Mountain Man Dance Moves at Christmas and it still made me laugh until my stomach ached tonight:

Errors in Communication Between My Hairdresser and Me, in the Form of What I Said and What He Heard

…via McSweeney’s

A few weeks ago, Ali Edwards posted a link on her blog to this monthly round-up idea. I thought it was an excellent idea, so I’ve been keeping a running record of the smaller things that have happened to us this month. I’m going to try to do it every month going forward.

What special days did I celebrate and how?

Mother’s Day was the 13th and we had Zach’s family over to our place for a BBQ. We ended up with quite a crowd. Erin, Bryan and Moke showed up first. And then Tom, Dee and Kitty came by a little later. Just as everyone was arriving, our neighbors Randolf and Lenni came by to see if Wyatt could play so we invited them to stay for dinner too. Lenni’s mom, Beate joined us a little later as well. We had a great dinner of grilled steaks and chicken, roasted asparagus and chipotle potatoes. The potatoes were good, but you couldn’t taste the chipotle at all. For dessert we had a big, delicious watermelon. I was thrilled to have such a yummy one so early in the season as watermelon is one of my favorites. Wyatt and Zach gave me a gift certificate for a fancy haircut for my Mother’s Day gift. I haven’t had a chance to use it yet, but I can’t wait because I’ve been wanting a haircut for a while now.

Zach’s birthday was the 22nd, the day after he returned from Montreal (see below). I got him a GPS for his birthday so he won’t get lost anymore. This will probably make his life about 50% better, because he gets lost a lot. I also hit Erin and Bryan up to babysit so Zach and I could go out for a birthday dinner. After much deliberation, we decided to go to Charlie’s restaurant, Cafe Rouge. We had an awesome dinner, complete with oysters, artichokes, and big steaks. Yummy — and so nice to get out by ourselves for a change.

Memorial Day was a little bit of a bust this year. We had a couple of invitations, but we’d been planning on going down to Santa Cruz with Erin and Bryan so we had to turn them down. We were going to visit Bon-Bon’s uncle’s farm and ride a train and what not, but we totally dropped the ball with the communication (Zach and I missed a crucial phone call from Erin) and with nap timing and whatnot we never got our act together enough to get down to SC. The day was saved though when Charlie decided to come over for grilled bratwurst at dinner time.

What fun things did I do with my friends and/or family?

Erin, Bryan and Mokey came over for dinner on the 2nd. Erin brought Moke over after Wyatt’s nap to help him get socialized. Wyatt is a little nervous around dogs, so we are also encouraging him to play with Mokey to get a little more comfortable. I stopped at TJ’s on the way home to pick up stuff for dinner and we ended up having a very similar dinner to the one we made for the Ponces on the Sunday before: grilled sausages, roasted veggies, grilled polenta, and green beans. I skipped the sausages for WW and just stuck with the polenta and veggies and it turned out to be a very filling, low points meal. I’ll definitely be having that again.

On the 7th, I went to see Will Shortz speak at Zellerbach hall in Berkeley with my friend Ellen from work. You can read a bit more about that here.

Wyatt and I went over to Manny and Allison’s for a barbecue on the 20th. Our friend Irwin and his son Janeil were there as well as Andy, Sara and their daughter Lula. The kids all had a good time playing together and Wyatt was all over Alex. He thinks he’s “loud” and hero-worships him.

Charlie came by for a surprise visit on the 25th. We were just about to sit down to dinner, so we invited him to eat with us. We were having barbecued shrimp, roasted veggies, rice and a bottle of rose which was pretty fancy for a weeknight dinner so he totally lucked out, if I do say so myself. We even had Zach’s birthday cheesecake for dessert. After dinner we sat around talking about the big trip to Europe he’s hoping to take in the next year or so and I tried to get him as fired up about it as possible. He’s hoping to travel around a bit and then get a job in a restaurant and work for a year or so. He’s 21, he’s got money in the bank and virtually no responsibilities (aside from his current job, of course) — I think he should just drop everything and go! I’m so excited for him at the thought of a trip like that. That’s something that he’ll remember for the rest of his life. I told him I’d be happy to help him plan his trip out because I love that stuff, so I might get to live vicariously through him.

What were my accomplishments this month?

I got parent hacked! Geeky, I know, but I was excited. They linked to my post on Wyatt’s Special Distraction book.

What were this month’s disappointments?

I didn’t really have any. Yay, me!

What books and/or magazines did I read this month?

When we were visiting Adam and Riko, Adam recommended the Rei Shimura mystery series to me and let me borrow his copy of The Salaryman’s Wife (Sujata Massey is the author). I started reading it at the beginning of the month and was instantly hooked. Before I even finished the first one, I logged onto Paperback Swap and ordered all the rest of the books in the series. Of course, the fourth one came first, then the third and then finally the second one got to me. I dove right in when it came and now I’m on the third book. The series focuses on Rei, a half-Japanese, half-American woman in her late 20′s living in Tokyo. She speaks fluent Japanese, but she grew up in America so it’s interesting to hear her perspective on Japanese culture. The mysteries tend to focus on one or two areas of Japanese culture in each book — corporate life, ikebana (flower arranging), Zen Buddism, etc. I imagine I’ll finish the series in the next few weeks.

What movies and/or tv shows did I watch this month?

We watched a lot of tv this month because we’d been letting it pile up a bit. It’s always nice to be able to binge on shows, especially now that all the exciting season finales are going on. Lost finally got good again and the finale was the best episode in a long while. Two of our favorite shows Veronica Mars (mine) and Jericho (Zach’s) had very exciting cliff-hangers in their last episodes, but that was a bit frustrating since they subsequently got canceled and we’ll never know how they turn out. And then we come to The Sopranos, probably our favorite show of all time. We still have two episodes left before the series is completely over and we can’t wait to see how the show turns out. The longer I watch, the more likely I think it is that Tony is going to end up dead, but the longer the show goes on, the more it seems like he deserves that fate. They have done an excellent job of slowly making him look like a monster again and now there is very little to like about him. It’s such an excellent show.

What new foods, recipes or restaurants did I try this month?

My new favorite WW food is roasted zucchini, peppers and cherry tomatoes. I chop everything up (except the tomatoes), toss with a little bit of olive oil, spread them out on a cookie sheet and roast in a 400 degree oven for about a half hour. So yummy and I can eat a ton for only a point or two (for the oil).

What special or unusual purchases did I make?

I bought Zach a GPS for his birthday.

What illnesses or health concerns did I have?

I had routine doctor and dentist appointments this month. Both were fairly uneventful, but the dentist did tell me that I have “beautiful gums.” That’s always a lovely compliment.

I got sick after our Memorial day cook-out. I felt like I ate too much at dinner, but otherwise things were going OK until I woke up at 3 a.m. that night with a bad stomach-ache. I laid there for a bit, feeling really bad and then I threw up a bunch of times. I didn’t feel up to going to work the next day, so I took a sick day. My stomach still felt queasy yesterday (three days later), but I think I’m doing better today.

Anything else noteworthy to record?

Our family had a couple of pretty big things happen this month. The biggest event was that Zach went to Montreal for five days for an unconference. He just wrote up a big blog post about his trip that you can read here. That meant that Wyatt and I were completely on our own for five days — the longest time we’ve ever gone without Zach. The first day was pretty normal because it was a Thursday, one of Wyatt’s regular baby school days. I then took the Friday and Monday off work to watch him. I was pretty nervous about going that long without Zach to help me, but it ended up going very well. It was hard not to have any breaks, of course, and absolutely exhausting, but in some ways it was easier too. When you’re by yourself, you’re the final decision maker so I found myself being a lot more decisive about parenting decisions than usual. Since I couldn’t ask Zach, “What do you think?” I just immediately did what I thought. It sure did streamline stuff.

The other big events happened at my work. My immediate boss, my VP and Nolo’s CEO all resigned within a three week period. As you can imagine, that shook things up at my job quite a bit, but I’m hoping that things will settle down a bit more in the coming month.

Blue Shoes and Happiness by Alexander McCall Smith is the seventh book in the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency series. I’ve been working my way through this series in the years since Wyatt was born, binging on all of the books that had been released at first and then picking up each successive novel as it was released in paperback. The books are pleasant and I find them enjoyable enough to have read them all, but they aren’t so fantastic that I feel the need to rush out to get them as soon as they’re published. The series focuses on Precious Ramotswe, the founder of the first female-owned detective agency in Botswana. In general, the books are slow-paced, sweet-natured and full of a subtle, wry humor. All this slow-paced subtlety had started to get a bit too exaggerated in the last few novels though and I often found my mind wandering a bit while reading them. With the most recent episode the author has picked up the action again and Mma Ramotswe has once again started to solve mysteries. They’re small mysteries to be sure — a black-mail case, a crooked doctor, and a strange mood on a wild life preserve — but there’s enough variety and interest to keep the reader wanting more.