January 4th, 2010 @ 10:31 am
Happy New Year! I hope everyone had a fantastic December and enjoyed their holidays tremendously!
As is often the case, the new year has spurred me to do a little reflection on my life and look at some places I’d like to make some changes. Most people refer to these ideas as “resolutions”, but I much prefer to think of them as goals. In the past, I’ve had some grand ideas about how I would make change happen in my life — lose weight! spend more time with friends! de-clutter the house! do more creative stuff! — but my follow through on those nice ideas has been less than stellar. Last year I set some much more specific goals and I’m happy to report that I actually achieved (and even surpassed) many of them.
This year I want to get even more granular in my goals. One of the big things I feel like my life was lacking last year was self-fulfillment. My lay-off and the subsequent transition from career-lady to stay-at-home-mom left me floundering a bit. I could write a whole big post about this topic, but for now I’ll just say that I found myself dedicating the majority of my time to satisfying other people’s wants and needs and significantly less time doing things I enjoyed and that made me happy. So this year, I’ve compiled a list of small, achievable goals for myself. Most of them are fun and all of them will make me happy in some way. I’ve grouped them loosely into five categories: cooking, crafts, kids, organization, and personal projects.
There are a gazillion things on the list already and I suspect that I’ll add more from time to time. It’s possible that I won’t complete them all this year (though I hope I will) but even if I only get to half of them I bet I’ll feel happier.
So without further ado, here is my list:
- Actually make those pretzel crayon thingies for Wyatt’s lunch.
- Bake bread.
- Find five reliable, healthy, delicious soup recipes.
- Learn to make pickles and/or marmalade.
- Make a split the layer cake.
- Make a twinkie cake.
- Make macarons.
- Make red beans and rice from scratch.
- Assemble paper Christmas train with the kids.
- Assemble paper Christmas village with the kids.
- Assemble Project 365 scrapbook.
- Do another photo-a-day project.
- Etch glass.
- Finish my project 365 blog posts.
- Finish the fingerless mitts I started before Christmas.
- Knit August a cute hat.
- Learn to crochet.
- Make a Santa outfit for Wyatt’s Imaginext Batman.
- Make a softie for my niece-to-be.
- Make a special birthday hat and get a special birthday plate.
- Make at least 30 scrapbook layouts.
- Make Augie more felt food.
- Make car organizers for each of the kids.
- Make felt gingerbread men for the kids.
- Make some felt flower barrettes.
- May some air dry clay flowers.
- Set up a light box for photographing food and crafts.
- Take a letterpress class.
- Add five new foods to Wyatt’s eating repertoire.
- Do a potato stamp art project with the boys.
- Find a park with a splash pad for the kids to play in.
- Read more with August.
- Read more with Wyatt.
- Sign up for a “Mommy and Me” type class with Augie.
- Take Augie for walks around the block.
- Take August to ride the steam trains.
- Take my kids to Iowa in the warm months.
- Take the kids swimming.
- Take Wyatt to the King Tut exhibit.
- Use our zoo membership.
- Visit Little Farm with the kids.
- Buy a laundry hamper.
- Clear miscellaneous stuff off the top of the living room book cases.
- Clear out the basement storage room and Freecycle like crazy.
- Clear the clutter from my bedroom.
- Get rid of half the stuff in our horrible, scary office.
- Organize my crafting.
- Re-organize and purge my craft supplies.
- Re-organize and refresh bento supplies.
- Set up a desk for Wyatt.
- Attend BlogHer 2010.
- Buy an every day skirt.
- Double Wendolonia’s blog traffic and subscriptions.
- Find a babysitter.
- Find my copy of “Wreck This Journal” and wreck it.
- Find some kind of exercise I enjoy and do it regularly.
- Finish my book proposal.
- Get a new couch.
- Go on more than one date with Zach.
- Go out to a grown up restaurant with another couple.
- Go to Nordstrom for a bra fitting.
- Hold another diaper drive for Help a Mother Out.
- Make a bento box how-to video.
- Make more lists.
- Print and frame a “Get Excited and Make Things” poster for my office wall.
- Read To Kill a Mockingbird.
- Start Weight Watchers again.
- Stay in a hotel alone for a weekend to sleep late, scrapbook, blog, and do whatever else I want.
- Take a day (or weekend) trip to Santa Cruz.
- Take periodic “days off” from social networking.
- Take some naps.
- Volunteer in Wyatt’s classroom.
- Wean Augie.
I’ve already posted my list to the sidebar of this blog and I’ll be crossing them out (and likely blogging about many of them) as I complete them.
Did you set any goals for the new year? What fun, fulfilling activities are you planning for yourself?
2010 goals · crafty · family · food · kid · self-absorbed






